The Train Travel

Human life is like a train travel journey. Every age and stage of life is a station., where the journey takes a momentary halt. There are these arrivals and departures of people & situations at the halts. It is god's way of telling you that the roles are over or then there is yet a station more to travel. Everything is with and for a purpose, known - unknown.

That purpose passes through a phase of independence., walks out at the next halt. If not the purpose then travels through the journey of dependence. This is the most risky phase as expectations develop, just  like spilt ends in healthy hair. A lot of departures happen here.

And those that don't, reach the road to inter-dependence., the safest and the healthiest., a 50 -50 equation with both people & situations.

Not all but you do have a small percentage of control in your hand, as to the shape you want the journey to take. But that's only possible when you are in control of yourself.

You also at many instances need to decide what matters to you more, Situations? Topics? Or People? Or then your own peace of mind?  Hold on to what matters and let go the rest. It's not always necessary to have a last word or to react to everything that happens arround you. Observe, understand and only then react. That doesn't mean that you don't speak up for something that effects you. Sometimes it  consumes an entire  life to understand a simple ABC. Don't be surprised if that experience comes to you. Just remember to be honest & responsible for your thoughts and actions. And the rest will follow.

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