The Mirror Test: Why Self-Approval Matters More Than the World’s Opinion

The Mirror Test: Why Self-Approval Matters More Than the World’s Opinion

A few evenings ago, after a long and messy day at work, I found myself doing what many of us unconsciously do — replaying conversations in my head.

Who agreed with me?

Who disagreed?

Who appreciated?

Who criticized?

It felt like a tug of war.

One voice said, “Well done.” Another whispered, “You could have done better.”

And in that moment, I almost slipped back into the old trap of trying to please everyone — something I thought I had outgrown.

The Reflection That Spoke Back

As I was washing up for the night, my eyes caught my reflection in the mirror. It wasn’t just a face staring back. It was a reminder.

The mirror doesn’t lie. It knows the truth.

It knows if I acted with honesty or just to impress.

It knows if I stood by my values or chose the easier route.

It knows if I was kind when I could have been harsh.

In that instant, the tug of war ended.

Why the Mirror Matters More Than Applause or Criticism

I realized something profound that night:

No applause outside can heal me if I am disappointed in myself.

No criticism outside can shake me if I’m at peace within.

The world will always have its opinions. Some will cheer you on, others will doubt or dismiss you. If we tie our sense of worth to that ever-shifting tide, we will never find stability.

But when you anchor yourself in your own approval, the storms quiet down.

The Simple Test of Success

So now my daily test is simple:

When I look at myself at the end of the day, can I smile back?

If yes — that’s success.

It’s not about the applause of the crowd or the sting of criticism. It’s about the inner nod of self-acceptance.

The Invitation

The next time you feel torn by conflicting opinions, I invite you to take the mirror test. Pause, breathe, and look at the person staring back at you.

Ask: “Did I stay true to myself today?”

Because at the end of the day, that’s the approval that matters most.

Do you take the mirror test too?

#Authenticity  #InnerStrength 

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