Life Skills & Narratives: Relationships ' The Pizza's of Life...
Think about it — life is like a pizza.
It comes in a square box, is round in shape, but the pieces are triangular.
Life and people? Same deal.
They look one way, act another, and end up surprising you.
The Many Flavors of Relationships:
We’re all in relationships — with ourselves, our families, friends, colleagues, mentors, even our surroundings.
Some are clear-cut and labeled: “Best Friend,” “Partner,” “Boss.”
Others? Not so much.
But the tricky ones? They’re always the human ones.
They can be confusing, inconsistent, and sometimes downright exhausting.
The One That Lasts the Longest — Your Relationship with Yourself
Let’s be real — the longest-lasting, most intense relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.
You’re stuck with you from day one to day done.
And while that’s powerful, it doesn’t mean we don’t need other people.
We do.
We need connection, even if it sometimes hurts.
Because that’s where we learn, grow, and get challenged.
The ROI of Relationships:
Not every relationship should be measured in ROI — you don’t need a profit and loss statement for your friendships.
But it should still be worth the investment.
If you’re pouring your time, heart, and energy into someone, ask yourself:
“What am I learning from this?”
“Am I growing or just going in circles?”
“Am I becoming more patient, stronger, or more self-aware?”
If a relationship teaches you something — even if it’s through tears or tough moments — it’s still a value add.
When Relationships Feel Like A Pizza Buffet…
You’re standing there, overwhelmed by all the slices.
Who do you give your time to?
Who gets the big slice, and who only gets a bite?
That’s where being mindful comes in.
Know your starts and stops.
Recognize when to give and when to hold back.
Understand that not everyone will give back what you give — and that’s okay.
The Reality Check:
It’s Not Always Equal ...
Here’s a hard truth:
You may matter to someone more than they matter to you — or vice versa.
People express love and care differently, and sometimes, they just don’t match your expectations.
Does it hurt? Yes.
Does it teach you where to adjust your emotional investment? Also yes.
Ultimately, We’re Not Trees
We don’t have to stay rooted in the same place, with the same people, forever.
Relationships evolve.
Some will fade. Some will deepen. Some will hurt.
But each one is a chapter, not the entire story.
So, make conscious choices with your emotional investments.
Learn from each slice, savor the good ones, and know when to put the box away.
Because life isn’t just a pizza. It’s a whole buffet — and there’s still so much more to taste.
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